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Representation helped, but it did not automatically create friendship. We still had to show up repeatedly and build community. If one spouse speaks Korean better, protect the relationship from becoming a permanent translation service. The move became better when we stopped comparing the new place to the old one and started building repeatable routines. The first few months were not a fair test. They were setup, loneliness, paperwork, and too many small decisions.

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