[outplore]

One of the biggest cultural shocks I experienced was realizing just how differently people approach time in different countries. Growing up in a fast-paced, always-on-time environment, I expected meetings, dinners, and even casual get-togethers abroad to run on a similar schedule. But when I moved to southern Europe, I quickly learned that “on time” could mean anything within an hour or two. It wasn’t seen as rude — it was simply a reflection of a different relationship with time and priorities.

At first, it frustrated me. I found myself anxiously waiting, feeling disrespected, or worried that I had somehow misunderstood plans. But over time, I realized it wasn’t about disrespect — it was about valuing connection over the clock. Conversations lingered because they mattered. Meals stretched on for hours because being present was more important than being punctual.

It forced me to slow down, to be less rigid, and to embrace a way of life that prioritized people over productivity. What once felt like “shock” eventually became one of the greatest lessons in patience and human connection I’ve ever experienced.

[nikko]

I was surprised how in southern Europe, “on time” could mean an hour late. It took adjustment, but I learned to value connection over the clock.

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