The honest answer is less romantic than people want. Choose the place that makes Tuesday morning easier, not the place that sounds best online. In Seoul, the practical systems become easier after setup, but the first month can make capable adults feel helpless. Also listen to the person in the family who is least excited. They often see the problem everyone else is trying to ignore. It did get easier, but not because everything became perfect. It got easier because we stopped expecting the move to solve every problem.