I would separate the emotional part from the daily routine. The feeling matters, but the weekday pattern will decide whether the move works. Nearby cities can offer more space or deeper specific communities, so do not make the Irvine address the only definition of success. Before committing, test the weekday version: school drop-off, grocery routine, commute, doctor access, and evening energy. I would still make the move, but I would prepare with more cash cushion, more patience, and fewer fantasies.