The honest answer is less romantic than people want. Choose the place that makes Tuesday morning easier, not the place that sounds best online. The city is safe, organized, and family-friendly, but teenagers or city-loving adults may experience that same structure as boredom. My advice is to rent or stay flexible at first if you do not fully understand the area yet. It did get easier, but not because everything became perfect. It got easier because we stopped expecting the move to solve every problem.