The honest answer is less romantic than people want. Choose the place that makes Tuesday morning easier, not the place that sounds best online. A neighborhood can look perfect online and still fail your real routine if work, school, friends, and errands are scattered. Also listen to the person in the family who is least excited. They often see the problem everyone else is trying to ignore. It did get easier, but not because everything became perfect. It got easier because we stopped expecting the move to solve every problem.