April 10, 2026 at 5:19 pm
#24787
Participant
Teenagers do not experience relocation as an upgrade. They experience it as losing their people. Diversity helps, but it does not remove loneliness during the first few months. The move became better when we stopped comparing the new place to the old one and started building repeatable routines. I would still make the move, but I would prepare with more cash cushion, more patience, and fewer fantasies.